Bother Her Some More!

Ways we flirt with our wives can change daily. Sometimes we are the loving and caring, gentle man that will just be as sweet as possible. You think we've become the ideal man that all women have in their head. We are romantic or debonair at times and normally this is what you like. Now sometimes we are just purely bored and hyped up on caffeine.

The problem is, sometimes we are also just the schoolyard boy that will threw stuff at you or pulled your hair when he liked you. We aren't anything like the prince in shining armor that had the "proper" upbringing, but a kid trying to show you he likes you by bugging you repeatedly. Like when we respond to every question you have with an answer that has absolutely nothing to do with what you were talking about. Or when we make really annoying noises randomly until you respond with an irritated voice or until we know it's getting under your skin. I think most guys at some time or another will just break down and become this "boy" when he wants to flirt. This sounds strange I'm sure, but most women can probably relate to this.

You probably had occasions where you just don't know what got into your husband. All you do know is that he was really annoying, not mean, just really annoying. Remember that sometimes he has only you to release his energy on and so that means you will get all the good and the bad. You become one of his siblings for a short while that he can bug and pester for purely his enjoyment. It's not because he doesn't care about your feelings, its just that's how he shows his love for you.

Don't take this wrong, just put up with it and play along until his energy subsides and he either falls asleep or tries fixing something that's not broke. Their is no fighting it, but maybe some redirection will do the job of getting him off your back.

I recommend changing the channel to something he finds interesting, telling him he sounds really cute and adorable like a small animal, suggesting going shopping with him if he doesn't stop, or asking him to rub your feet or back. This is a sure way to get him off your back and stopping whatever thing he is doing to irritate you for his entertainment.